The Secret Was Just The Beginning
Do you remember that first spark of hope you felt when you watched The Secret with Bob Proctor I clearly remember the desire that filled my heart, knowing that – Yes, I can make my dreams come true – FINALLY!
But how many of you soon saw that hope dwindle into frustration? How many of you started muttering things like (and be honest now):
- “I just can’t get it right, but it seems to work for other people.”
- “I’m frustrated that sometimes I can get it to work, but sometimes I can’t. What’s the trick?”
- “Why am I having so much trouble?”
- “I think the universe is against me.”
- “I’m trying very, VERY hard but still nothing is happening!”
You’re not alone, don’t worry. About 97% of people also couldn’t make the Law of Attraction work for them the first time round. Think about it, just like anything else, before you see success, you have to practice many times. A child doesn’t learn to walk without falling over a couple of times, right?
But, everything is easier said and done in practice. It’s hard to stay positive, when you’re frustrated. And it’s especially harder to stay positive when the evidence all around you screams negativity like the unstable economy or senseless acts of violence such as those recently seen around the world.
And do you know what happens when you fail to stay positive? That’s right – you start attracting negative things in to your life.
So how can you make the Law of Attraction work for you – without getting frustrated? How do those who successfully implement the Law of Attraction do it with such confidence and finesse?
Well, here’s three quick tips so you will never feel frustrated or tired of begging from the universe, because you know how to start manifesting like a pro.
1. Allow Yourself To Receive
Just like a lost child who approaches a police officer and asks, “Excuse me Sir, can you tell me how to go to the post office? Can you? Can you? Can you? Can you? Can you?” Well, the police officer can’t even give an answer, if the child goes on and on asking right?
Well, it’s the same thing with your mind. If the only thing your mind is doing is transmit, transmit, transmit, the universe — which is trying to respond — can’t give you a single thing because you’re not allowing yourself to receive!
So, have the confidence in yourself and stop exhausting yourself by running around person to person begging for riches, and then wondering why nobody is dropping a penny in your cup (Hint: It’s because you’re running away too fast for them before they can even reach for their wallets ).
Just think of your desires and leave it out there, go away, and trust that your cup will be filled with gold coins (or whatever it is you asked for) when the time is right.
2. Be Patient With Yourself
Receiving takes time.
Many people sadly, give up just a couple of steps before the finish line because they’ve decided that if it’s not working by now, it’s never going to work at all. Worse still are those who throw in more and more energy because they think that the results will come faster with more resources
This is like expecting 9 mothers to conceive and deliver a baby in 1 month. Also, in half the time you can’t bake cookies by doubling the temperature. You’ll incinerate those cookies to ashes!
In simple terms: Everything in this world has a natural development time, and this fact will not change no matter what resources you throw at it.
So be patient and relax. Remember as part of the universe, that you too are also governed by the laws of the universe, and the natural development time cannot be changed by you.
If you remember this, you will less likely work yourself up into frustration, or worse, push yourself into a negative downward spiral
3. Support and Educate Yourself
Like the child who is learning how to walk, you need support. You also need the role models to look up to, and the guidance on how to do it.
Many people give up because they think that “The Secret” is the “be all and end all” solution. Well, it’s NOT. “The Secret” is just a small portion. It has never been or never intended to be the whole answer.
Coming to the conclusion that the Law of Attraction doesn’t work when all you ever did to educate yourself was watch “The Secret” 19 times (without looking at changing the habits of other areas of your life) is like coming to the conclusion that exercising is not an effective way to lose weight because all you did is run on the treadmill for 2 hours a day (but you’re still stuffing yourself with cheesecake and fried foods. ).
So be hungry and seek for new knowledge. Also, make an effort to be amongst groups or people where you can learn from each other, support each other and also share new knowledge that you have found.
While the Law of Attraction is not an overnight delivery service, if you do your part too, it will indeed deliver!
Hans Anderson
Hans K Anderson


